It's time to graduate. You have permission to be authentic. You're going to love it and, what's more, people will love the real you. There's nothing more attractive than someone happy and confident in their own skin and who is totally genuine. When you radiate confidence, the right people will naturally gravitate toward you. 3. Know your Value It is very true that we teach people how to treat us by what we put up with. The universe rewards those who honor their own value consistently.